Here fishy fishy fishy...
I really am okay single but it sure would be nice to have someone to do things with other than girlfriends.
My last three relationships ended very badly!!!!!! The last one lasted 3 years but in the end it ended due to him hiding an addiction to marijuana! I am sober so finding out that he used it daily was a little rough. By the time I found out, I had already fallen for him so I though I could ignore it. After I realized I could not ignore it he kept saying he was quitting. Alas, it was not ignorable (is that a word, LOL?!?!). It is hard to deal with a person that HAS to have a drug! The mood swings and irritation was too much and he had no intention to ever quit. So that was the end!
The one before him lasted about 2 months and then he just started to act like the person he really was. You know how we put on our best behaviors when a relationship is new? Well, who he was was very brash and a racist...scary! That ended that quickly!!!
And finally the one before him lasted about five years and the foirst four were great! We moved in and I honestly thought he was THE ONE! Then he relapsed on pills and would not get help so that ended that!
I am going to now look outside of the rooms of recovery for love and see how that goes. Maybe "normal" men are normal?!?! I am going to give it a shot and I will keep you posted on all the excitement! LOL!
Here goes nothing...
What is your favorite thing to do on a first date? Do you agree the woman should offer to pay? Are there gentlemen left out there? Know any sweet nice men you can send my way?