Friday, February 19, 2016

Happy Sucky Valentines Day To Me

Hi everyone!

I know I have been conspicuously absent, however, work and personal life have just imploded!

Things are hectic at work and we are on the forefront of another re-org! Does anyone else work for a company that constantly re-orgs?!?! I swear, it is every other year here! LOL!!  We are all just waiting to hear what our new roles are and, fingers crossed, no one gets let go!

On the personal side...I love the holidays! All of the holidays! I am a very celebratory girl! I also bring a lot of energy and joy to each and every holiday!

I have been COMPLETELY dreading writing this post but I have to let you all know eventually right?

 I hate to inform you all; especially after reading all of your amazing blog posts about your romantic and fun dates; my Valentines Day sucked....not just sucked...ROYALLY SUCKED!!!

I have been dating my BF for over a year now and my expectations were not met at all. Without going into more details, after finding out that he put ZERO thought into the day AT ALL - I decided to bail on even seeing him and stay home with my cats!!! That officially makes me the crazy cat lady but I don't care! I will not waste my time with someone that does not show me the same adoration and love that I show them!

So, this weekend is a do over for our Valentines. He apologized and seems to understand now that just because he thinks things are stupid, I do not! Also, if something is important to me, it should be important to him! So, we shall see how things play out...this may be the end for us or a new beginning, I just know that I deserve WAY more than I got last weekend. I hope everyone knows also that this is not a monetary thing. I would have been happy with a folded up hand made care that said I love you! He planned nothing! It was truly painful in my heart and made me feel so very sad!

I will keep you posted! Congrats to you all as your Valentines looked amazing and magical!! I am so happy for each and every one of you!!!

Happy Friday ya'll!!!


  1. that totally sucks, so sorry dear. hope this weekend is much better for you.

  2. That's like "my life" lol. We probably should have dated more before we got married ;)

    1. LOL! I have not married mine yet...I still have time to run. Love is a crazy thing...does not look like I am running the other direction - ugh!


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